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I used to have a really sappy view of love. It was all romance and glitter and puppy dog eyes…
I’ve performed many weddings. I’ve also done my fair share of prenuptial counseling. When a guy and a gal are “in love” there’s really not much they care to listen to, regardless of how profound your insights might be.
Here’s the truth.
Love is hard.
Love is not “easy.” …infatuation is easy. Lust and romance and hormones are easy. Falling in love is easy.
Staying in love is not easy.
True love is quite hard – but its also worth it.
It takes work – but the effort is returned a million fold.
True love is an amazing thing. It surprises you with grace and forgiveness and courage and …pretty much anything that is good.
The apostle Paul said it this way: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
I dare you to read through that a few times. Move beyond the emotion of the words and dig into the practical difficulties of loving like that. …who else likes to keep a record of wrongs? …I have a hard time rejoicing in the truth …and don’t even get me started on patience.
Do you love like that?…how does your love compare with that passage?
If you don’t love like that - can you really call it love?
…and for some of you, blessed like me to have someone that loves you like that…
How did we ever get so lucky?
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